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Why do people wait for someone else to go first?

The first person pays for certainty so others can borrow it.

Why this belongs to Invisible Agreements: This question belongs here because it reveals how people negotiate action through silent social permission.
People often wait because social proof reduces uncertainty and makes choices feel safer.

Nobody dances first.

Nobody asks the first question.

Nobody enters the empty restaurant.

The hidden mechanism is permission hierarchies.

Humans borrow certainty from each other.

One action becomes permission for many others.

People think courage spreads through speeches.

Very often, it spreads through examples.

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